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by Eden Zhang » 04 Feb 2004 09:47
Adrian, your grandparents must be very patient, understanding and forgiving people. Those traits I admire in people, but I'm afraid to say they're only prevailent in only a few people.
Please try to understand that Edward is very angry because his parents were the ones mistreated by the Japanese. Because of the Japanese they had to flee to America. When your grandparents came back to Australia, they came back to probably more or less the same place. Aside from war mobilisation etc, they would still have their home, their neighbours would probably be there, their wives (or girlfriends) would be waiting for them and your grandfathers could probably still goto their favourite pub for a beer with the lads (if they were there or survived).
Its the comforts of home, stability and returning to what one cherishes that helps heal wounds.
However for Edward, the Japanese not only took over the land his parents loved, because of their actions, Taiwan was not only terrorised by the Japanese, but later by the Americans and now by the Chinese. They would've had to move to America, begin life anew in a new and foreign land. No friends, no connections, a land with different customs, a whole different language to learn and the white American people have never been known to welcome immigrants with open arms and no offense to the Americans on these forums, but they are generally ignorant and and dismissive of foreign customs and culture.
So even after the initial terror and heartbreak of World War 2, Edward's parents probably still had to endure several years. Not from downright terror, but probably more from confusion and the feeling you get when you constantly feel you just don't belong but want to do your best in order to do so even if it means having to cease doing things you've been brought up your entire life doing.
Sorry for going on a rant here, lads, but I would just like to say that no two peoples' experiences are the same. I'll leave it at that.