OK, I give up. Nothing at all. All I can suggest is that some of the place names are not the Polish spellings... possibly Germanisations copied verbatim from a list. My guess is that, given so many of the family details are around the Lublin area,
Okalew and
Okalow are one and the same place.
http://www.galiziengermandescendants.org seems to be the
ONLY place
Okalow exists as a place name. There is nothing for it's probable Polish spelling
Okalów
Sorry, maybe someone else will have better luck. Best regards.
Edit... just when I had given up...(and don't ask me what the following means)...
277 (Nr. 1) 1609
Stanisław Gostyński, s. o. Jana G., dziedzic w Czarnych Żołnach p. wieluń. na wsiach Czarne Żołny i Choyne (1/2 wsi: Okalow, Bolkow, Oporowice, rezerw. dla siebie) Zofii Grodzieckiej, c. Andrzeja W. dziedzica w Wyszynie, ż. przyszłej zap. posag 12. 000 złp. (f. 448)
http://teki.bkpan.poznan.pl/search.php? ... 15&page=13 It seems to be a record from 1609 mentioning a small village near Kalisz called Okalow... but I think this is too obscure to be the place you're after.